Chasers

Chasers
1. Hunt for prey(throws themselves out there without a promising outcome)
2. Prey runs from chasers
3. Catching is hard(inconvenience)
4. Power to accept or reject is not yours
5. Prowling on dating apps
6. Gives off cornering vibes(pressure like it's dating or nothing)
7. Gives special treatment (treats friends like girlfriends)
8. Fearfully Timid (afraid of what is thought of them and always tries to impress - afraid to playfully offend - it's not fun being to careful)
9. People that look desperate tend to have low standards(beauty or booty or attention is enough)
10. Don't match lights(always green for girls you see potential with - looks desperate - very needy - Imagine how unattractive girls are when they are desperate - it's the same reaction - you're disgusted - Chasers make dating uncomfortable because skipping frienship applies so much pressure making it stressful - who wouldn't run from someone chasing after them from far? - you don't know them they don't know you - this is why friendship is so important
11. Tends to have no female friends(because you run them all away)
12. Proposes dating(asks for commitment from them - they drown strangers girls in flattery - you given the prize before committment so why commit?)
13.  Chasers skip friendship(start chasing from far away on sight which is very unattractive - especially because you don't know this person at all or enough as a friend to be so eager - it's unreasonable to date then especially when you consider the fact that your risking the possibility of being their friend and meeting their friends)
14. Chasing isn't attractive (as for men we can say the same for girls that want us too fast - they have a lesser chance than they would if they had been patient)
15. Dating is not fun(trying to get a date is stressful and being on a date with a stranger is stressful)


Chillers
1. Traps their prey(Doesn't throw themselves out there but with a promising outcome)
2. Chillers become prey(you treat yourself like prey not the devour)
3. Catching is easy(very convenient)
4. Power to accepted or reject is yours(once you can make female friends that opens up a whole new world because female friend have female friends that you'll eventually meet so you can be picky since you get that ball rolling because you'll have so many options)
5. Not on dating apps(that's a green light - a neon green light at that you'll look desperate)
6. Gives off free vibes(no pressure - you don't make them feel cornered - you don't make them feel wanted)
7. Treats all friends the same(they can't read you to see if you like them or not in comparison to how you interact with other girls so curiousity gets the best of them)
8. Self-confident Audacity (be yourself - be silly, cheesy, whatever - you playfully offend them like you do all your friends - don't try to impress them)
9. Looks content(not needy - tends to have high standards - beauty and a booty isn't enough - good charcter is required - girls don't want easy - one thing that helps me alot is remembering the proverb "beauty is vain" - beauty is only one factor of so many)
10. Always match her yellow (default to yellow - a yellow light only reciprocates advances like her eagerness, urgency, and excitement - so don't initiate - We gotta take a detour right here because you need to fully have to understand the differences between lights and know where you should be - never say things that indicate liking until they give you the green light - like you're so beautiful or I like this about you - no reward no flattery - this makes them curious what it would be like to be yours - we are more curious about where we probably can't go than were we can)
11. Tends to have alot of females friends(does group events with female and male friends)
12. Proposes group friendship(offers fun to them with no commitment - you can't be emotionally rejected this way - for someone you meet in public you can say something like "we got this big friend group of a bunch of girls and boys and we all play Volleyball together watch the chiefs game eatout Church everything." - or I may say something like you look pretty athletic, we play sand volleyball on the weekends wanna join? its more of casual social thing - see how that's much easier for her to fall into immediately rather than in love - if she can't be your friend how can she be your girlfriend?)
13. Chillers require friendship before dating(that's what makes them interesting)
14. Girls are very comfortable(with you - since they are comfortable they aren't wary of the love trap - so just expect green lights because the longer they linger around you someone is guaranteed to hit the trap - girls can't help but let you know they like you if y'all are just friends - in groups they'll start to single you out or be so present in the dms)
15. Dating is so fun!(you don't have to try to find a date - just have fun because it all takes place in the context of your hobbies and that's what you call natural)